Introvert. Shhhh

4 Stress Triggers for the Introvert

  1. Losing sight of an exit. Introverts often find themselves settled near an opening or on the perimeter of a room. Upon request, they could demonstrate escape routes faster than a seasoned flight attendant. Tip: if you dread interacting with an introvert then plant yourself smack in the middle of a party. They will never find you.
  1. The question of what to wear poses a slightly different conundrum for the introvert going out on the town. They aren’t steeped in concerns of fashion or trends. Instead they’re pulling a Sherlock Holmesian (Cumberbatch version) examination of a potential outfit in an effort to recall if it’s the same thing they wore last time when out.
  1. Suggesting more than one location in an evening during a social gathering ignites a mental cramp. Introverts, when opting to be social, feel comfortable committing to one place. If the party migrates, the introvert Ubers.
  1. Group weekend getaways. Introverts love quality time with their friends, just not an entire weekend out of town. If an introvert agrees to such a weekend they’ll spend the week before going through the following stages: a) Is it possible to be polite and decline? b) I can’t decline! Initiates strategies for survival, c) Wonders why an entire weekend is really necessary, and d) Acceptance.

 

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  1. ksbeth

    yes!

  2. kingmidget

    Yes to #4. You mean we really have to spend the entire weekend together? Why? Is there no way I can have some quiet time built in for myself? Please.

  3. Rebecca Meyer

    I can definitely relate to these! Especially #4! Just the thought of a whole weekend in which I can’t be by myself makes me feel a bit of panic.

  4. lilypup

    Really cute. Yes, a weekend is a long time! http://lilypupslife.wordpress.com/

  5. livingonchi

    I’m still laughing, so true, all except the first for me. I don’t wear anything that takes more than 10 seconds to decide upon. All other considerations are irrelevant.

  6. Ally

    Love this! Especially the first one. I hate being in the middle of a crowd, and always keep to the edges.

  7. successhacks

    Great post! For me (as an introvert), deciding what to wear also means trying to find something to wear that does not draw attention! Fade into the background….